Why I'm here

I’m getting divorced.

It was my decision - meaning I’m the one in the marriage who filed and ‘surprised’ my spouse. But it has still been an absolutely awful experience, one I wish one no one, even though it is for the best in the end.

So what am I doing here?

Well…I need an outlet.

I have a therapist, she’s fantastic.

And I have the best of friends.

But they’re a bit at their limits with hearing about my spouse. (And I only see my therapist for 50 minutes each week.)

So I figured a space where I can write as much or as little as I want could work as a nice outlet to process…well…everything.

It’s a vulnerable place to be, writing about this for the entire internet to read, even though I am staying anonymous.

So thanks for being here and joining me as I reflect on this stage of life and start anew.